Next Wednesday is Ash Wednesday, which signals the beginning of Lent. For those who don’t know, Lent is the 40-day time period leading up to Easter Sunday. (In reality, it’s 45 days because Sundays are still supposed to be observed as a Sabbath.) Interestingly enough, Lent is not a tradition we find in the bible, but it was created by the church to help Christ-followers to prepare for Easter, and remind us Christians of the life and sacrifice of Jesus—specifically his 40-day fasting and temptation in the desert before he began his public ministry. (Read Luke 4:1-13 to get the whole story of that encounter.) Traditionally, Christians would fast daily until sundown, and they would give up all forms of meat–except for fish–on Fridays.
Lent is often perceived as a time of grueling self-sacrifice due to the whole fasting until sundown thing. Today, however, most of us just give up coffee or sweets. Tough life. Occasionally, though, Lent is taken as a more serious opportunity to combat habits like excessive consumption of food or alcohol, an addiction to pornography, or excessive spending of money. Whatever one decides, the goal behind the sacrifice is to prompt a time of prayer whenever you find yourself tempted to indulge in these activities. (e.g. If you normally go get a coffee at 10 am on Mondays, instead of buying a coffee, you spend those 15 minutes praying and reading scripture. Repeat as often as you get coffee.) It’s funny–well, kind of sad actually–but in my experience most people hear this challenge and are immediately intimidated by the idea of going without coffee for that long. Some people are legitimately addicted to coffee, and would be straight-up jerks for 40 days if they gave it up. To all of you who are in this position: by all means, keep drinkin’ the jo. I think Jesus would rather have us be able to love the people around us than try to observe Lent and be hurtful.
HERE’S AN IDEA, though. Lent doesn’t have to just be a somber time of sacrifice. It can also be a time of devoting ourselves to some new or different practice that also reminds us of Jesus. For example, I am a person who connects with God through music. So for lent last year, I decided to pick up learning how to play piano. I did my best to devote at least 30 minutes a day to sitting down and studying some aspect of the piano. Instead of dreading my bible and prayer time because it was a reminder of not being able to have something that I wanted, I looked forward to it because I was finally doing something that I had wanted to do for a while. Maybe for you this means getting into running or learning to crochet. The only suggestion I have is that it be something you can do while praying.
Now, to the people out there who are thinking, “Well, that’s not truly observing Lent because we are supposed to suffer like Jesus did,” I have news for you: WE ARE NOT JESUS. If you really want to be traditional with it, though, go ahead and give something up. I am all for challenging ourselves.
In fact, here is my challenge to you: Think of something you want to pick up over this season of Lent. Plan out when and where you will engage this activity, and try to do it at a time of day when you are most likely to follow through. For most of us, this means not late at night or early in the morning. Give God your best time of the day. He deserves it.
Also, if you are someone who struggles with a more serious problem, like an addiction to pornography, alcohol, or excessive spending, it’s time to start working on it. I encourage you to take Lent as an opportunity to invite God and your community into these areas of your life. Find someone you can talk to about it. Make plans to avoid putting yourself in situations where you often fail, and, most importantly, when you find yourself wanting to engage in these activities, PRAY. Ask God to help you resist giving in. And have grace with yourself. You’re not perfect. Yet.
Finally, let me know how it goes. Leave a comment.
Chris Sherman, UMin Student Leadership Coordinator
I’ve already failed on my most common New Year’s Resolution: to be more disciplined. I mean, it’s January 19 and I’m just now rolling around to really thinking about New Year’s Resolutions…talk about lack of discipline.
Perhaps a good thing, as I’m once again realizing that this resolution simply does not engage me emotionally; it doesn’t engage “my emotional elephant” in the language of Dan & Chip Heath in their recent best-seller Switch.
One of our interns, Kevin Petermeyer, gave a great talk at the Inn (1/17/12 on the audio player) with a simple message reminding us that we are not intended to earn God’s love as much as we are intended to respond to the reality of God’s love for us. Love engages (and challenges) me a lot more than discipline.
So I find myself with two resolutions as I springboard from Kev’s reflections on the Good Samaritan. First, quite simply, my resolution is to LOVE MORE. This is one of the foundational tasks of Christian discipleship, “Love God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength and love your neighbor as your love yourself.” (Mark 12) My second resolution, and no doubt related, is to give people the benefit of the doubt. When I think of Jesus – fully God and fully human – and his interaction with the Samaritan woman, Jesus responds out of common humanity. His response gets past ethnic, gender and religious differences. In short, Jesus gives her the benefit of the doubt as he speaks the truth to her. It is out of that human compassion that Jesus demonstrates love and the Samaritan woman’s whole village discovers a loving God. In 2012, I want to do likewise. I want to give my neighbors, friends, my kids, my wife, and most notably, my enemies and the people that annoy me the benefit of the doubt in the same way.
So, here I am saying, quite simply, I want to love more in 2012 knowing that I need to believe more that God’s love for me, and those I want to give the benefit of the doubt to, is in fact, real.
Ryan Church, UMin Director